Because of the surgery and a basketball game that night, John and I celebrated on Saturday. We went to our favorite Mexican restaurant for lunch and then finally saw a movie we had been wanting to see for months. It was a very nice date. Before the babysitters came (yes, 2 sitters. They prefer to work in pairs, which is ok with us!), we cleaned the house to be presentable. They cleaned it even more for us! They worked hard on Grace's room, and then cleaned the kitchen up for us. They were a little too helpful in one aspect, though. They decided to put our powdered sugar in a container for us, thinking they'd just add it to the "other" powdered sugar. Unfortunately, that was flour! Luckily, John realized what happened before he started flouring our venison steaks for chicken fried steak! And I'm glad I had just bought a new bag of flour, anticipating making cookies with Grace. We got a good laugh out of it, and still smile at the thought. The best part about the babysitters is that they refused any money! I tried, but they said, "No, this is our Christmas present to you." It was such a blessing. I think it's been over a year since I've paid for a babysitter. I'm getting spoiled. :)
The following Monday, we headed to a town halfway between here and San Antonio to meet up with some friends from Germany. When we moved back to Texas, we didn't send any furniture, but we had coffee table that John's dad had made, so we wanted to keep it. They used it for a year and a half and brought it back to us, so we met up for lunch. It was so good to see them. There's just something special about meeting up with friends from overseas. It's hard to describe, but the best way I can say it is that it was refreshing and comforting. We had a great 2 hour lunch with them before driving back home.
Unfortunately, that night, we got the call that my step-granddad passed away. We had been expecting the call for a while. He was battling end-stage Parkinson's, and they had removed the feeding tube because his body was refusing to keep even the liquid food in. It was a relief to know he was no longer in pain, but still sad that he is no longer with us. Tuesday, I went to my parents' house so I could ride to the funeral with my dad. We decided that Grace didn't need to be in a car for a 4 hour drive 2 days in a row, just to sit at a house with John while the funeral happened, so Grace and John got some quality daddy-daughter time, which they LOVED. Dad and I spent a lot of quality time together. I really enjoyed it. We used to do daddy-daughter dates when I was in high school and college (and some after), but we haven't in a while. It was nice to have so much one-on-one time. We did grocery shopping, went to dinner, and just talked. Wednesday, we drove to my grandmother's house. The funeral was Christmas Eve, and I rode back with my brother after the service. It was a long 2 days.
Christmas Eve, when I got back to my parents' house, John and Grace were there. It was good to see them. I miss them a lot even after just 2 nights away! We did our family Christmas with just the 3 of us. We traded stockings and opened our traditional Christmas pajamas.
Christmas Day, my family all came to my parents' house. We even talked my grandmother into coming home with mom and dad after the graveside service, so there were 14 people there! It was crazy, chaotic, and so much fun! I was finally able to announce to both families (webcam with John's family and in person to mine) that our 2nd baby is another girl! Most of the family guessed that it would be a girl, even though some hoped for a boy. (It's pretty funny that for my dad, he will now have 4 granddaughters, and his sister has only 2 granddaughters and 10 grandsons! She always joked with him that he'd get all the girls, and he did!)
Christmas evening, we went to my dad's mom's house for a few hours, and then headed to my sister's to spend the night. Four nights away from home in 4 different beds was exhausting for me, so I was very happy to be home.
We picked up my in-laws from the airport yesterday and had another Christmas last night. Grace kept wanting to play with everything she got and stop opening the rest! But we saved the big gift for last, so we wanted her to keep going. She got a dollhouse, and was so excited! They got it all set up and she had a blast playing with it for a while.
Overall, the last few weeks have been crazy, but it was a good end to 2009. We are looking forward to all the changes that 2010 will bring! Happy New Year!!